New Year, Same Me!!!

 

Every year around this time, we have this “Coming to Jesus” moment where we want to reinvent ourselves for the new year: #NewYearNewMe. However, after January it is noticeably clear that we are in fact still the same person from the year before and years before that lol (just kidding).  At what age, do we start this never ending process?  Because I know for a fact Young Trellie was not worried about any New Year’s Resolutions lol.  I was more focused on firing all my firecrackers 🧨and dreading the return to school 🤷.  I guess in Adulthood, we need to reinvent the wheel.  The New Year can bring about changes, but do not try to change yourself just because.  Also, do not fear if December comes along and you are not where you wanted to be.  Start in December and continue it into the next year.  We try to put too much stress in these “Resolutions” or "Goals" and need to put more into the planning.  I started writing my resolutions/goals down and planning how to attack them each year. (May or may not have been an idea from the wifey🤣🤣)  Surprisingly, I have begun to see better results this way lol. You do not have to think big for a goal either. A goal can be whatever you want it to be.  Some people want to lose or gain weight.  Some want to pay off debt.  Some want to get their own place.  The options are limitless.  For me, I hope to keep bringing you great topics all year long lol.  Just because it is 2021 does not mean my feelings have changed; I still HATE IT HERE!!!  Happy New Year Everyone!  Let us get to planning and not changing for 2021 lol.